薇薇的旮旯

好朋友

2012-01-04T22:49:00.001+08:00

Taken by Ah En

前年，我一个人懵懵懂懂地跑到上海去，和佳慧过了一个寒冷但又不飘雪的圣诞。去年，我们举家到江南旅行，碰巧是佳慧在宁波工作的最后一个冬天，再加上慧芳也江南游，我们无论如何都要见面！

慧芳和我最夸张，连续三天，分别在苏州、南京、上海见了四次。我和佳慧则分别在南京和上海见了两次。

我们三个女人坐下来，有象面线一样长的话题，永远讲不完⋯⋯

能够在这个冷冷的冬天，过这样温暖的一个下午，感觉特好 :)

不要浪费力气

2011-12-12T23:06:00.003+08:00

生气是一种很浪费力气的事情。

我决定节省能源。

睇到你前边，憎到你后边

2011-12-08T20:25:00.001+08:00

今天才明白，这句话是有道理的。

当你不喜欢一个人，不管他做什么，不管什么情况，就是看不顺眼。即使是一丁点小事，也会让你觉得那是眼中的一根刺。

跑半个马拉松

2011-12-06T00:07:00.001+08:00

这不是我的第一次，但我也不是特别有经验，才第三次而已。

第一次的经验是惨痛的，我的膝盖在5公里以后竟然不听使唤，痛起来。我原本想开始走路，可是想到前方有16公里的路要走，可是很远哦，只好继续跑。到了不知道多远，才开始走路。

第二次有备而来，进步了，但是就埋怨路途的斜坡太多，跑得太累。

第三次，我已经知道路线和去年一样，一早做好斜坡很多的心理准备，只是一直祈祷不要下雨。果然没下，好开心。只是因为意外、旅行、再加上懒惰，没什么练习，又比去年差了。

因为已经有了心理准备，再加上同事一直告诉我，不管多慢都要跑，开始走路以后就很难再跑了。我撑着撑着，也跑了14、15公里吧。正当我在跑着的当儿，我发现自己只要撑过上斜坡的路，路途就很好过。所以，我的马拉松啊，就是这样⋯⋯好痛苦啊～～～～咦，好可以哦～～～～好痛苦啊～～～～咦，还可以哦～～～～这样一来一回，“惨痛”的跑完。

我一面跑，一面想到我的工作，也是一样，痛苦了一阵，然后又轻松，然后又是一轮，再一轮，再一轮⋯⋯（脸上的青春痘也一样）只要撑得过，没有什么是解决不了的问题。只要努力，一切是会过去的。只要保持正面的态度，日子会好过一点。自己好过，身边的人才不会痛苦。

跑了半个马拉松，这是我要提醒我自己的话。

当然，我也要提醒自己，以后不要“ke gao gao”，没有训练就跑马拉松！膝盖承受不了，意志力也不够坚持！

男人贵在潇洒

2011-11-28T23:24:00.001+08:00

最近，我发现原来我真的不能忍耐婆婆妈妈的男人。

很多时候，女人比较犹豫不决（普遍上而已，并非所有）。遇到什么事情，总是左右为难，做不了决定。尤其像我这种人，老是希望可以两全其美，又担心得罪人，总是做不了决定，总是犹豫。在这种时候，我总是比较喜欢有个人站出来决定，说：“就这样吧！”。

当我遇上一群比我还要犹豫的女生，我会在适当的时候，帮姐妹们决定。但是，我不会忍受不了姐妹们的犹豫。反之，如果对方是男生，我可会抓狂！你可以说我discriminate。我不否认。

比起犹豫不决，我更不能忍受男人行动慢。我可以等女生洗澡，我可以等女生打扮，我可以等女生上厕所⋯⋯可是，来个男人让我等上十分钟，可就不行了！不是我只给他十分钟，而是他比我用多十分钟。不能接受。

这种男人的女伴，一定要有一定的耐性。

还好，我的男人等我，不是我等他。

自得其乐

2011-11-13T14:27:00.001+08:00

中文是这么好听，叫自得其乐。套句我们常用的话，叫shiok sendiri。表面意义一样，却完全没有一丝文绉绉的感觉。

从2005年开始，在北京学会了到处游走。旅行这些年，我发觉我学会了自得其乐。

路途颠簸，五脏六腑都被蹬出来，这叫体验。
迷路走远路，以致目的地好像永远不会到，我们说看沿途好风景。
等待的时间长，那就把相机拿出来玩，或是写写日记。
⋯⋯
反正后来，这些沿途小事，会成为美好的回忆，也是很好的饭后话题。

你看，沿途不忘自得其乐，一切就好似称心如意。

心态

2011-11-12T00:55:00.001+08:00

有些人做起工来特别爱埋怨。

曾经有人跟我抱怨：“唉，真没意思，拿一点点薪水，每天都得烦别人的事。”
我说：“你可以换工啊！找个高薪的工作。”
他说：“市道不好啊小姐！有些工作很压力的。”
我有点不耐烦了，“先生，拿人钱财，替人消灾。公司总不能白白给钱。既然领钱，当然得烦。不想烦别人的事，就自己做老板咯！我肯定那时你天天只烦自己的事。”

我不喜欢在工作的时候有人向我抱怨。工作是不容易，生活本来就不容易。既然如此，倒不如看开点？

其实换一换心态，工作没那么难做的。生活也就快乐很多。

现代的小孩

2011-10-27T21:00:00.002+08:00

在旅行途中认识了一个小孩，说小不小，说大不大，刚刚步入青春期。虽然如此，在人人眼中就是个小孩。他样子小小，可是说话却大人到不得了，长长一副小大人的样子，总是逗得我们笑的眼泪都要流。

他说，一个人要是结了婚，喜欢另一个人，可是没做什么，那不算背叛。

我昏！

我28岁了

2011-10-11T00:17:00.002+08:00

爸爸10月9日晚上打电话回来，祝我生日快乐。

我抗议：“还没有到啦！”
爸爸说：“我怕忘记，先打来。”

哈哈！爸爸提醒我，我的生日是辛亥革命，也是台湾国庆日。呵呵，爸爸的中国近代历史特好，没办法。

28岁了，昨晚毓豪问我有什么愿望。我想一下，原来我不知道我有什么愿望。小时候生日愿望很简单，不过是想要有哪个玩具，哪个书包，哪个游戏机⋯⋯一大堆不知所谓的东西。大一点，我希望考试可以顺顺利利的过。再大一点，希望可以进大学。再大一点，希望工作顺利。（一些不知所谓的东西还是有的，不过就免提了）

再大一点⋯⋯我没有什么愿望，不过是希望我和身边所有人（伴侣、家人、亲戚、朋友、同事）都健康平安快乐。自己一个人快乐是不够的，所以，大家都一起来，最欢乐。不是吗？

28岁了，回头望，从大学毕业以后，我把一生的“事业”，都放在玩乐。真的，就是玩乐。不要羡慕我，不是因为我特有钱，而是因为我特舍得。还可以玩乐几年，就是几年，玩吧！

28岁了，展望的几年，想要做什么？说我没有想过，当然是骗人。要我讲？也就算了。太懒惰，长篇大论又何必？

28岁了，踏入28岁前一周，竟然来场意外。身边人给予的关心满满，让我复原的快。平日举手可做的事，在这周内有时候是不方便到让人难以启齿。要人帮忙，问多几次又不好意思。硬着头皮来，又不能。所以，平时给予别人一点点方便，真的可以帮人很多。

28岁了，我最怕的竟然是我的运气几时会用完？这次小伤真是不幸中的大幸！现在过马路，我的反应偶尔会迟钝。站在路边看着飞驰的车辆，我会担心“这种速度撞下去，飞到十万八千里去，哪里还有命？”

28岁了，说老不老，说小不小，真尴尬。

28岁了⋯⋯

思绪混乱，我还要做的事很多，我要得做的事很多，我要看得还很多，我要玩得还很多，我要学得还很多⋯⋯所以，我会继续好好的生活！

大家一起加油！

（对于我的语无伦次，抱歉了！）

关心担心

2011-10-08T12:22:00.002+08:00

知道如果我把意外的事情告诉爸爸妈妈，他们会担心。即使我如何把那件事情形容得像笑话，他们难免担心。现在，我妈妈每晚都打电话问我伤口怎么样，吃什么。不可以吃“有毒”的食物。我以前当然不管，不过这一次要到西班牙旅行，很听话。

唉⋯⋯是女儿不好，让你们担心了。

亦舒小说里爱写：做孩子的，好好活着便已是一种孝心。以前不怎么会意，现在身在其中，感同身受。真的，好好活着已是一种孝心。

我会小心的。

爸爸妈妈，我爱你。

意外后感

2011-10-04T10:54:00.004+08:00

～讲古～

事情是这样发生的，周日傍晚我和毓豪跑步去。正当我们已跑到最后一公里的时候，意外发生了。我在前头，跟着地上的箭头，看着路上的红绿灯，不知道为什么，当时那几秒钟，我好像有点失去判断能力，我竟然过了马路。我是迷迷糊糊过的，究竟为什么，我探不出答案来。

第一条lane的车子全停着，到了第二条，有辆电单车直直的驶来。电光火石之间，我想避开，但是，心里也盘算着，太迟了。因此，嘭了一声，就撞了。

说也奇怪，我到现在还是记不起我当时是怎么跌倒的。我的记忆停留在电单车撞我的那一刻，还有我坐在地上，转头看见毓豪奔向我的那一幕。之间的百分之几秒，完全没有记忆。

说也奇怪，我竟然没有哭。同事打电话来问候，头一句就问：“一定哭了啦，你这哭包！”。说你也不信，我不只没哭，还因为觉得是自己有错，还叫毓豪先把电单车骑士扶起。几个路人才七手八脚把我们扶到路边去。

这骑士也太没道理了，竟然开口骂我，还摔头盔发脾气。当时我就气了，我也在痛啊，我就叫他住口。路人又七手八脚帮我们叫了德士，我回家取钱包，就往医院去。

一路上，我想起毓豪紧张的样子，我很内疚。一直握着他的手，说对不起。就这样坏了他一个周日晚上。也是在路上，我的伤口越来越痛，膝盖上的血流了下来。很恐怖一下。

到了医院门口，紧急室的人员和毓豪推了轮椅出来让我坐。二十八年的人生，还是头一次！哈哈哈！登记完毕，就等号码。

护士第一次叫我，帮我看伤口，顺便洗一洗。我对痛的忍受度是很低很低的。当消毒水一碰到伤口，我的眼泪就不听使唤的流下来。轻轻地包扎，又等医生。医生检查看看有没有骨折的危险，然后把我送进X-Ray房里。报告出来，我安全了。护士又把我叫进另一间房，包扎伤口。又是一阵眼泪流不停，护士真好人。她一直在安慰我，还跟我说sorry sorry，还不停的给我纸巾。我还以为护士都是凶巴巴的，让我碰见好人，真不错。

也是神奇的，第一位看我的护士要给我止痛药，我竟说不要。我真的很奇怪的。后来，我的解释是，我担心要是有骨折，因为不痛了，我也不会知道，还是看完医生了才吃。

手续办完，已经是几个小时后的事情。可怜的毓豪早已饿到不成形了。付了钱，我们打车回家，在楼下的小饭吃饭时，已经是十一点多。累得⋯⋯

～谢谢你～

回到家，我很想洗澡。我是跑步回来的，头发身体，一阵汗臭味。可是又很困惑，怎么洗？我的身体的一半不可湿水。被撞的都在右边，右边脸肿了，黑青了，右边肩膀流血，右边手臂全是瘀伤，右膝盖流血了，右脚也是瘀伤。总而言之，右边不可以湿水。

毓豪放了一张凳子在冲凉房，让我坐着，他帮我洗头发。伤口处，用他发明的“胶袋套”裹着，以免湿水。哈哈哈！洗澡是个大工程。

把所有事情弄托，我们累得睡不着。毓豪明显的是被整件事情吓坏了，担心我会有什么不测。让他这样伤心，我也觉得有内疚。想起他紧张的样子，我躺在床上哭了起来。被撞伤的时候都没有哭，整件事情结束了才来哭。

也因为这样，我不敢第一时间打电话回家，担心一开口就哭。像小孩一样，明明小事，爸爸妈妈一开声安慰，就会哭。所以，第一时间只通知姐姐。

朋友和同事的也不停的来电、简讯、电邮安慰，谢谢你们。

毓豪在整件事情上也辛苦了，谢谢你。

～做人不要贪心～

话说我们两人，太好了，觉得多多少少是自己的鲁莽，就决定不要报警，私底下解决好了。还打算给他一百块，算了。结果，这个人却越来越过分。说这个要修，那个要补，一点点钱不够。太过分！你撞到我，虽然是我的错，你还反过来要求多多！

因为意外当天，是毓豪和他交换联络号码，他一直烦毓豪。一直打电话，传简讯。后来我联络他，说不可以再烦他了，我从这里handle，我这就去报警。他说，可以谈的。我说没得谈，就二话不说报警去。

警察哥哥告诉我，现在你报警了，他不可以在烦你了。交警会向你问话，届时应该是会惩罚他，毕竟你是行人。

好，我对你好的时候，你不领情！还贪这贪那，现在现今没拿到，还得受罚！活该！

～～～～～

好啦，我的故事终于都说完了。

很长，谢谢阅读！(^_^)

不能挥霍的感情

2011-09-22T00:18:00.001+08:00

感情一向是比较难以捉摸的东西。自古以来，多少情歌在流唱，多少文艺小说电影在感动人心，每个人都知道爱情这游戏有多棘手，却无奈人人都陷身其中，甚至无法自拔。

幸运的，在感情世界里找到知音，手牵手走完下半辈子。不幸运的，你爱的不爱你，爱你的你不爱，错综复杂。更不幸的，明知道你爱他，他不爱你，却处处留下模棱两可的暗示。

其实，后者最讨厌。既然不爱了，为什么不放手？为什么继续挥霍这份可以让他人更幸福的的感情？既然决定这不属于你，那就应该拱手让人。何苦让对方越陷越深，还让人在你的婚礼看你幸福的微笑？

感情这回事，还是积多一点福。因果报应这回事，你听过吗？

吕思清梁祝小提琴协奏曲

2011-09-13T00:52:00.002+08:00

事隔6年，我仍然记得我站在北京中山公园里，中山音乐厅的售票处失望地离去。当天无意中让我发现吕思清同西崎崇子合演梁祝，兴奋地想买票。可柜台小姐告诉我，票还是有的，只是吕思清手受伤了，当晚应该演不了，只有西崎崇子上场。

我只爱吕思清的梁祝，老觉得西崎崇子的硬邦邦，没感觉。再加上学生时代，哪有这么多钱看音乐会，还看自己不喜欢的，很笨！只好回家去。

这么多年了，他从来没有光顾新马一带开音乐会。幸得伟杰通知，我们才知道今天有“中秋伴梁祝”，吕思清的梁祝！

梁祝被安排在小息前的最后一首。吕思清的小提琴一拉，那声音，和我的CD一样。陶醉！真陶醉！没有人的梁祝可像他一样。

可美中不足的是，我不太喜欢广州交响乐团对这首曲子的诠释，有点太快了。而且，“破坟”那一段，Brass来的不够“凶”。我一直有点耿耿于怀。还有，定音鼓的拍子进错的时候，我眼睛瞪大了！唉⋯⋯坏了吕思清的梁祝，还是我CD里的中央交响乐团好听。

不过，能够现场目睹吕思清拉小提琴，还是非常值得的。他还安哥了一首“查尔达斯”，很好了啦！最衰就是没有签名会，要不然，他可帮我在我收藏了十多年的CD上签个名字。

他如果再来，我肯定在光临！

今晚发梦可能会梦见梁祝 :)

长得不美不是我的错

2011-09-01T23:12:00.000+08:00

最近很伤心。我一直是那种喜欢别人直言快语的人，因为，我自问反应迟钝，猜想别人的想法，并不是我的拿手好戏。你开不开心，快不快乐，直接告诉我好了，我在适当的时候，就不打扰你就是。

可是，可能日子久了，大家大概觉得我很直爽吧。就连批评也开始很直接。

我这一年来，收到的评语多不胜数⋯⋯

老了
惨了
脸瘦了，样子越来越不好看
头发短，不好看
头发长的时候很老
胖了，游泳圈都出来了
鞋子青色，很难看（连鞋子都批评）
以前比较可爱
老虎牙比较可爱
⋯⋯

我自己都记不清。

我知道天生不是美女，也一直不是勤劳扮美美的女生。以前被人家说说，我也只是一笑置之，我能够怎样。不过，近期，真的被讲到⋯⋯我都不知道该怎么形容。

我知道我不美，你们不需要天天提醒我。让我自自在在地过，可以吗？

张学友1/2世纪演唱会2011

2011-08-28T16:43:00.005+08:00

所谓的半世纪，就是张学友歌神的年龄。

50岁的歌神，真的是到一种无法想象的境界。中年的他，一开场就来三首快歌，又唱又跳。不过，最‘估你唔到’，张学友竟用“花花公子”作开场。很多像毓豪这样非忠实歌迷级的听众，真的是听到一头雾水。毓豪问我：“什么来的？”哈哈哈。

我虽然不喜欢开场的三首歌：花花公子、小姐贵姓、初吻。都来自80年代比较不出名的专辑。不过，他为了配合他为这场演唱会的音乐电影故事才选的吧。还好我是忠实粉丝，虽然不怎么会唱，还是不会懵嚓嚓。

除了那三首，整场的曲目，都是我喜欢的。尤其“你的名字，我的姓氏”，让人眼湿湿。不知是否他本人的爱情路上，都让人有种甜蜜温馨的感觉。他唱这种情歌最醉人。“如果爱”也是如此。我承认我泪腺浅，不过，真的很动人。

我最不喜欢“吻别”，总觉得凭这首歌曲让他在全世界红，有点不明不白。他的好歌多得数不清，为什么偏偏是这首。不过，经过分析，我觉得歌神本人可能也不很欣赏这首歌，所以每场演唱会的吻别，都不是原版。摇滚版、爵士版，都比较好听 :)

饿狼传说、头发乱了、这个冬天不太冷，也是演唱会必唱必跳的劲歌。可是，岁月是残酷的，已经看得出他不比4年前的灵活。不过，半世纪了，还是很厉害！唱“月巴女且”歌颂肥姐的时候，他还一字马。尖叫到我没命！哈哈哈。

不过说真的，如果不是他偶尔唱错词，你会怀疑他是否对嘴。即使在劲歌热舞的时刻，他一口气都没喘。体力很好，肺气量很大。一点都不像50岁。说到唱错歌词，电脑技术人员真的很可爱。只要学友一唱错歌词，他就把歌词删掉。直到学友唱对了，他在把歌词放回。真体贴！:P

全场演唱会，让我最失望的，莫过于观众。当晚的观众，是非常非常的冷静。像是付了$8看电影似的。一点热情都没有。室内体育馆的灯光暗了，大家还是很冷静的灯张学友出场。我很无奈。张学友一出来，我大喊大叫，在别人眼中无疑是一个傻婆。然后，最后一首歌还没唱完，大家就走了！很不可思议！！！！我连喊安哥的机会都没有。气愤到无法形容！

在吉隆坡看过三场演唱会，只要场上有一点点动静，开灯：尖叫！；关灯：尖叫！；乐队出来：尖叫；技术人员调麦克风：尖叫！；歌手出来了：没命的叫！！！！！！所以，这场半世纪演唱会，我真的真的不习惯，太冷漠了。张学友会不会很灰心？

以后，我还是到吉隆坡看吧。

还有，这一生一定要想办法到香港红馆看一次！

当然，不是毓豪我也没有机会坐在26排，所以，这真是我今年最美好的礼物！谢谢！！！！

很怀念张学友了，是不是该看看十二月有无可能来吉隆坡看？

书的前途在哪里

2011-08-21T00:09:00.000+08:00

Borders倒闭了。

书店越来越难做，这个年代看书的人越来越少。资讯发达，人人都上网，谁还奈何得了捧着一本书。

我还是喜欢看书。我鲜少闻到味道，但是，书本的味道，纸张发黄的味道，我还是喜欢。喜欢翻书的质感，喜欢捧着书的感觉。

真心希望，以后的世界，我还可以买书，逛书店。

书啊书⋯⋯求求你不要绝种。

没有理由让你等

2011-08-19T00:08:00.003+08:00

曾经听有人说，他下班后在他老婆公司附近等老婆等了四个小时老婆才下班。四个小时！

四个小时，你可以做什么？

我可以煮饭、吃饭、洗碗碟、看电视、洗澡，然后再上网。
我可以看完卫斯理小说。
我可以看完亦舒小说。
我可以⋯⋯做很多很多事。

可是他选择等老婆。

我的惊讶程度非同小可。

老婆没有告诉你要等多久？没有
老婆为什么不搭的士？她不喜欢
为什么不回家后再来？不知道她几点下班

我，无言。

我不喜欢等人，我也不喜欢让人等。准时是美德。如果你不能准时，请你通知他人。如果要他久等，告诉他先做别的事。每个人只有二十四小时，我们没有资格夺取别人的青春。要是你应经告诉他，他还是痴痴的等，那是他的事。至少你没有存心浪费他的时间。

女人，不要以为让男人等，他就是爱你。我们没有活在琼瑶的世界里，每个人都有纯在的意义。每个人都应该有自己该做的事。

我们没有理由让任何人等。

我的Eason Duo

2011-08-16T22:59:00.008+08:00

慧芳问我为什么这么久了都还没有写一些关于陈奕迅演唱会的感想。懒惰咯！

Eason Eason,我当然是哭了。我比预想中哭得少。可是，当他用他那股听起来有点沙哑悲伤的歌喉，唱“富士山下”的时候，我的眼泪不听话了。

誰都只得那雙手 靠擁抱亦難任你擁有

要擁有必先懂失去怎接受

曾沿著雪路浪遊 為何為好事淚流

誰能憑愛意要富士山私有

何不把悲哀感覺 假設是來自你虛構

試管裡找不到它染污眼眸

前塵硬化像石頭 隨緣地拋下便逃走

我絕不罕有 往街裡繞過一周

我便化烏有

有谁抵挡得住那种悲伤。

很多我很想听的歌，他都没唱。“我什么都没有”、“无人之境”、“七百年后”、“我的快乐时代”⋯⋯不过像姐姐说的，不管他唱多久，我永远不会觉得足够。只能够盼望下次他再来，我再出席他的演唱会。

好几首歌，是全场大合唱。富士山下、明年今日、夕阳无限好、你的背包⋯⋯尤其明年今日很厉害，我简直认为那是国歌。还有一度，Eason也哽咽，太多人陪唱而感动？

因为香港2010DUO的缘故，我爱上“陀飞轮”，是很爱很爱的那种。可是，不知道为什么，他竟没有为大马准备。Encore的时候，他问台下观众想听什么。VVIP那里，有人要求“陀飞轮”，我和姐姐，还有好多的歌迷也是喊的没命似的（虽然知道，他完全听不到），也是要求陀飞轮。

他很诧异，一直问“真的？你们真的很想听？”台下歌迷简直没命地喊。他说，等band找一找歌谱。那时，轮到我很诧异，他们完全没有意思完这首歌。还是找到了，还是唱了。

然后，一开始唱，我就哭了。陀飞轮的时候，我几乎都不唱，我怕我唱了，这首歌就毁了。

陀飞轮，还是我Duo里的最爱。毓豪说，还好VVIP有人要求了，要不然我可睡不着。我日盼夜盼的，就是这首歌。

一直到今天，很不可思议的，我还在Eason Mode。有时候，一听见他的live，我还来个鸡皮疙瘩。

唯一要怨的，就是银河娱乐实在太太太不够意思。开场迟了，还不要紧！请来一个年轻小伙子，说是开场嘉宾，唱了又唱，还讲话感谢他妈妈，我们在台下坐到很不耐烦，一直喊“回水！！！！”然后，不知道为什么这么吝啬，才唱三个小时。以前张学友一场，可是4个小时的哩！！！哎⋯⋯Eason，为什么？？？

Eason走了以后，我还是很不舍得。结果远远被我瞄到鼓手Ah Jun还在台上。我们走到台前。我犹豫了很久很久，忍不住叫了一声：“Ah Jun！”原来身边一群女生也是在等他，不好意思喊，一听见我喊，也喊了起来。Ah Jun只好来entertain我们一下。或许以后在大马演唱会，他就有机会表演了 :)

还不到两个星期的时间，我就要看张学友了。我对张学友是很长情的，从还没有读书就开始听，到今时今日。美中不足，我还在Eason Mode的时候，还得硬硬来，转为Jacky Mode。不过，一点都难不倒我，张学友的，我几乎都会唱 :)

不过，Eason，我真的很想你啊！你几时再来？

不完美，但太漂亮

2011-08-05T00:53:00.002+08:00

正在为即将来临的陈奕迅演唱会兴奋着。

陈奕迅不象张学友，他没有完美华丽的歌声。他偶尔破声，但是，他比张学友在我身上赚得更多的眼泪。他不完美，但是伤心歌曲在他的诠释之下，往往有种让人难以呼吸的感觉。然后，眼泪就不由自主地掉下来。

好多好多他现场的演唱，是我最喜爱的版本。只有象他和张学友这种真正的实力派歌手，才有现场比专辑好听的能耐。

一个月之内，一场陈奕迅，一场张学友的演唱会。我这个月要不兴奋都很难啊！

Favourite Activity--Suicide in Group （集体自杀）

2011-08-01T20:49:00.002+08:00

One of the activity that I enjoyed most during my stay in Sipadan Water Village, was jumping into the sea from the jetty platform.

Ai Mei and I tested water on 2nd day, and persuaded everyone else to jump like us on 3rd day. I know it didn't sound like a bunch of 30-to-be should do, but what the heck!

We had real FUN!

Enjoy the video made by Yee Hau :)

Close Encounters with Animals (Part 2)

2011-07-31T23:55:00.003+08:00

Coming back from Sipadan Island had left me dreaming about that paradise for one whole week. Yeah, that's how crazy it is.

The thing that I loved most, when I was there, is getting close encounters with turtles of all sizes, everyday.

Photo taken by Bey Yee Hau

I envied those who had seen turtles in Redang before I've been on to this trip. I've been to Redang and Perhentian twice! And never saw any of them. However, this time, I've seen too many of them, I can't count.

Swimming with the turtles are simply wonderful. They "fly" gracefully through the water, flip their "wings" effortlessly but yet, having the speed that is so fast, we had to swim harder to catch up. Looking at them, is really something peaceful.

Apart of being able to swim with the turtles, Ai Mei and I were chased by trigger fish while following a small turtle. I guessed we were too close to its nest and offended it. We swam away for our life, but we laughed our heart out after that.

Besides, we were lucky to come into contact with a school of big eye trevally! Our guide swam through the tornado of fishes, and let us in. We were in the middle of the tornado! How cool was that!

Then of course, we saw several white tip reef sharks. This was the 2nd time I saw sharks while snorkelling! It's so cool!

What's my next close encounter with animal?

Part 1, please refer here.

PS. Now I'm really crazy for turtle, I'm looking up and down for the soft toy turtle from Finding Nemo. If you know where to find it, please tell me :)

这小子怎么长大得那么快？

2011-07-31T22:50:00.000+08:00

看看这相片里的靓仔，就是踏入十九岁的弟弟。

我不知道是不是每个姐姐都希望弟弟永远长不大。永远都是那个可爱到让人想捏一把的样子。永远都停留在对每样事情都好奇的年龄。永远，都在玩玩具车，都在骑sing sing car。

还记得我离开家里，到新加坡的时候，阿恩在车站哭得稀里哗啦，害我也好像开水龙头一样，一发不可收拾。那是N年前的事情，不过却历历在目。离家那么久，其一最遗憾的事，就是弟弟的成长历程里，一大部分，是少了我。

唉，这么快就长大了。看再过不久，就是带女朋友回家了。我这二姐要靠边站咯！

恩，生日快乐！我们下星期庆祝！♥

Bumblebee & A New Friend

2011-07-11T22:51:00.003+08:00

Call me crazy, when I got this watch as a present from Yee Hau, I called it Bumblebee. The colour combination reminds me a lot of Bumblebee.

I wanted to get this watch simply because of the step counter that comes with it. Besides, it tells you how much calorie you burnt. (Girls love this) It tells me I walked average 15km per day during my backpacking travel. I'm proud of it. I've been loving it.

However, there's a problem with the rubber strap. It stains easily. At first, water is good enough to clean it. Then, I have to start using soap water. Then now, soap water doesn't do a good job too.

It struck me while I was watching TV, "Why didn't I try wet tissue?". Please don't call me aunty, but I always have the habit to keep the wet tissue given by restaurant. Hence... after shower, I was cleaning my Bumblebee with wet tissue. And it works! Now it's clean!!! :)

* * * * *

But there's one problem with Bumblebee, it's too sporty. It doesn't go well with all my outfit (Girls... *roll eyes*). So, I've been eye-ing the white watch from Casio for some time.

Then, finally I had my friend to get this for me all the way from HK! It's $40 cheaper, how can you blame me? :P

And for the record, this is the first watch I ever bought for myself. Like, seriously.

Will I regret for it's pure white? I guess I will. But I'm loving it for this moment.

So, no more watch for ... I dunno, another few years.

我们又上国际新闻了

2011-07-10T22:30:00.003+08:00

No news is good news.

有时候，我真的相信这个。报章上的新闻，90％都不是好消息。

打开互联网页，大家都在谈Bersih。政府一塌糊涂的谎言，让人觉得愚蠢。这是什么年代了，怎么还把子民当作笨蛋来看待？

一个干净的政府，似乎是最遥不可及的梦想。我面对网站上让人心痛、心碎的映像、照片、文字，只能够默默流泪。

应该保护人民的警察，平时捉贼没有那么英勇。面对手无寸铁的人民，却表现的如此“威武”。国家应该是我们觉得安全的地方，政府应该以人民为主。可是，我们的国家，真的安全吗？

我看见国外的其中一个新闻影像，结束前，记者说：“This is democracy, the Malaysian way”。好啊，我们又成为别人的笑柄了⋯⋯

陀飞轮

2011-07-03T21:45:00.001+08:00

最近，姐姐、毓豪和我，忙着为八月六日陈奕迅的吉隆坡演唱会做准备。除了一些机票酒店等事情，我们忙着练习。对于陈奕迅的旧歌，我们再熟悉不过，不过，近期的两张专辑，还没有很熟悉，所以很努力 :P

从来没有注意“陀飞轮”这首歌词。昨晚因为Eason的现场演唱太过感动，搜了歌词，在房里大声唱。现场的版本，比专辑的好多了。为什么，他的现场总可以这样动人？

真的真的，很感动。

我等不及啦！！！！

作曲 : Vincent Chow　
填词：黄伟文
编曲 : Gary Tong
监制 : Alvin Leong

过去十八岁没戴表不过有时间
够我没有後顾野性贪玩
霎眼廿七岁时日无多方不敢偷惰
宏愿纵未了奋斗总不太晚

然後突然今秋
望望身边应该有已尽有
我的美酒跑车相机金表也讲究
直到世间个个也妒忌仍不怎麽富有
用我尚有换我没有其实已用尽所拥有

曾付出几多心跳来换取一堆堆的发票
人值得命中减少几秒多买一只表
秒速捉得紧了而皮肤竟偷偷松了
为何用到尽了至知哪样紧要

劳力是无止境
活着多好不需要靠物证
也不以高薪高职高级品搏尊敬 wo~
就算搏到伯爵那地位和萧邦的隽永
卖了任性日拼夜拼忘掉了为甚麽高兴

曾付出几多心跳来换取一堆堆的发票
人值得命中减少几秒多买一只表
秒速捉得紧了而皮肤竟偷偷松了
为何用到尽了至知哪样紧要

记住那关於光阴的教训
回头走天已暗
你献出了十寸时和分
可有换到十寸金

还剩低几多心跳人面胀水晶表面对照
连自己亦都分析不了得到多与少
也许真的疯了那个倒影多麽可笑
灵魂若变卖了上链也没心跳

银或金都不紧要谁造机芯一样了
计划了照做了得到了时间却太少 no~
还剩低几多心跳还在数赶不及了
昂贵是这刻我觉悟了
在时计里看破一生渺渺

伟文的歌词一向都很好，不过，如果歌手演绎得不好，再好的词，也是一塌糊涂的音乐。就像方文山写给周结论的词，往往我都觉得被糟蹋了。

痴痴的笑～

2011-06-21T00:11:00.002+08:00

最近，我常常在地铁里痴痴的笑。无他，全是郭靖的错！

中学时期，姐姐老是尝试要我看金庸的小说。我看的第一套，是《笑傲江湖》。第二套，是《射雕英雄传》。可是，看到一半，家人竟然怀旧追TVB黄日华、苗乔伟演的连续剧。结果看到一半的射雕，永远搁着。

后来，我看《天龙八部》。可是屡看不成。第一次，因为段誉实在太讨厌；第二次，因为虚竹真的很笨。第三次，忍着看完。

我也看《鹿鼎记》。然后，重看《笑傲江湖》，因为我真的太喜欢令狐冲。

射雕快看完了，下一部该看《神雕侠侣》吧？

看这些武侠小说有个很大的问题，就是黄日华老是浮现我的脑海。他曾是郭靖、也曾是萧峰、还曾经是大笨蛋虚竹，看小说时脑里满是他。够力！

看完射雕以后，我应该会很空虚。还是慢慢看好。

父亲节快乐！

2011-06-19T23:50:00.001+08:00

一直觉得这首个是很感动的父子歌。

父亲节快乐！

Life in Boxes

2011-05-23T22:54:00.003+08:00

For the past one week, we've been busy packing our belongings into boxes and luggages.

When I stared at the pile of boxes, I felt funny. On the first day of packing, we're organized, we tried to put things in order. I can almost see my life in different categories, i.e. "for my memory", "sentimental", "personal secrets" etc. And of course, the other normal things like clothings, shoes, bags, books and electronic stuffs. As if I've put up an exhibition of my life and I'm the only person who is allowed to walk through all the secret paths.

At the very last minutes, time is tight, we can't afford to be perfect and nostalgic anymore... And, we packed a lot of random boxes that we do not know how to categorize, or rather, we do not have time to categorize anymore.

Is that how we live our life? When we have time, we try to make things perfect. But when we're out of time, we give ourselves excuses, and we start to put everything together, without considering the consequences. (Of course, in this case, the consequence is that we took longer time to unpack the random boxes)

Maybe, it's time for me to sit still and organize bits of pieces of my life. Because I really hate those random boxes!!!

I'm Loved!

2011-05-18T20:30:00.002+08:00

We were busy packing our stuffs to move on Saturday afternoon. I have a bad habit when it comes to packing. I would sit there, soak myself into the memory lane... And wander for a long time.

Over the years, I have stuffed sentimental little things into a little box. And the little box got full, turned into bigger box, and bigger, and eventually it is an IKEA storage box. Among the things I have, I precious the letters and cards, the MOST. They always have a separate box.

Yesterday, I tried to rearrange them so I threw them all over the floor. And before I knew it, I was starting to read some of them.

Then, I rearranged them into categories of senders. And housed them into a cuter box.

Right now, I am really considering to consolidate those I keep in my hometown and these together, so I have a full collection of them :)

With these much ♥, how could I ever giving up sending things to my friend?

P.S I found some handmade cards by Yee Hau back in those days when we're still VERY much romantically in ♥. Hee Hee ^.^

Anyway, Yee Hau said I can refer to these letters when I need to write a biography of myself when I grow old :P

I Have My Regrets

2011-05-17T00:50:00.002+08:00

I do have my regrets, and sometimes they came into my mind. Today, I do not know why, I decided to write them down. Maybe because I always believe when you talk them out, they are out of your mind.

You know how people tell you college life is the best time of your life? But you know what? After my graduation, when I started to work, I didn't have any bit of intention to get back to study. Really.

I didn't suffer through the 4 years, they weren't hell, but they weren't heaven too. During my first semester, I somehow managed to get myself into scholarship officer's office to "talk" about my results. Then, in my second semester, I got a book prize and of course I never went into that awful office anymore. But the awful office, was just awful!

Study aside, I wasn't active. Unlike my secondary, I can do everything for my orchestra. But during my college, no activity seems to hold my attention long enough. I didn't join them with my passion, more to just collect some points to stay in the hall. I hate to admit this, but I really hated this kind of intention behind.

I stucked with mostly Malaysian students most of the time until 3rd year of my study, when I went to Beijing. I realized the way I lived my college life was wrong. When I came back to Singapore after internship, I became solitude, I read a lot of self help and inspiration books. 4th year, I moved out from hostel with my friends.

I never got crazy for my entire college life.

I never got as active as I could.

I never got fantastic in academic as well.

The only thing I didn't regret was spending a semester in Beijing. What a shame.

Sometimes I wonder, why my college life didn't sound like me at all? Why would I find it difficult to fit in? And what the hell was wrong with me that I took 4 years to try to fit in?

I can't explain myself.

Someone Like You by Adele

2011-05-14T18:48:00.003+08:00

She sings this so beautiful, so sad. It moves me to tears...

It's really more than words to describe. I love the album version so much, but when I found this live version, I think this is my favourite! I've repeated this more than 30 times just today.

I heard that you're settled down,
That you found a girl and you're married now,
I heard that your dreams came true,
Guess she gave you things I didn't give to you,
Old friend, why are you so shy?
Ain't like you to hold back or hide from the light,

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited,
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it,
I had hoped you'd see my face,
And that you'd be reminded that for me it isn't over,

Nevermind, I'll find someone like you,
I wish nothing but the best for you, too,
Don't forget me, I beg,
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love,
But sometimes it hurts instead,"
Sometimes it lasts in love,
But sometimes it hurts instead, yeah,

You know how the time flies,
Only yesterday was the time of our lives,
We were born and raised in a summer haze,
Bound by the surprise of our glory days,

I hate to turn up out of the blue uninvited,
But I couldn't stay away, I couldn't fight it,
I had hoped you'd see my face,
And that you'd be reminded that for me it isn't over,

Nevermind, I'll find someone like you,
I wish nothing but the best for you, too,
Don't forget me, I beg,
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love,
But sometimes it hurts instead,"

Nothing compares,
No worries or cares,
Regrets and mistakes, they're memories made,
Who would have known how bittersweet this would taste?

Nevermind, I'll find someone like you,
I wish nothing but the best for you,
Don't forget me, I beg,
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love,
But sometimes it hurts instead,"

Nevermind, I'll find someone like you,
I wish nothing but the best for you, too,
Don't forget me, I beg,
I remember you said,
"Sometimes it lasts in love,
But sometimes it hurts instead,"
Sometimes it lasts in love,
But sometimes it hurts instead.

That creepy old thing!

2011-05-11T22:07:00.002+08:00

It's getting on my nerve because

I can't seem to control my appetite for potato chips.

I can't seem to control my appetite for hot and sour food.

I can't seem to control my mood.

Mood swings and crazy appetite!

Sigh...

Blogging from T3

2011-04-10T04:34:00.004+08:00

This is the first time, I depart from T3. It's going to be a long flight, I have been trying not to think about it but... It's really a BLOODY long flight.

Just by going through my itinerary, made me feel tired. I know it's just a short 2 weeks trip in the States, but maybe there's too much in my mind, I have been having difficulties to let go of my thoughts.

I've been travelling alone lots of time since I work, for work or leisure, but I do not know why, this is just a little bit different. I hope everything will go on well.

Wish me luck!

看见小时候的我们

2011-04-03T14:59:00.003+08:00

昨天晚上，我和毓豪到SCO捧他朋友的场。这一次，是SYCO的演出。全场都很不错，尤其那位15岁吹唢呐的小弟弟，看样子，他将来必定成才。

音乐会的其中几首曲子，是快节奏的。有位打木琴的小男生，完美地打完一段跑音以后，对自己会心的满意的微笑。我仿佛看见N年前的自己。以前，我们也一样。完美地奏玩一首歌以后，满意的笑。或者，更极端点，到后台抱头痛哭。

小时候，就是如此。一切喜形于色。

我看见那小男孩，仿佛看见了我自己⋯⋯

对自己说

2011-03-15T20:31:00.000+08:00

放手吧，何必执着？

Virtual Chats

2011-03-14T12:50:00.003+08:00

Can't deny the fact that internet has brought us lots of convenience in communication. We can always keep in touch with friends, anywhere anytime.

However, it does hit me hard when some people are rather irresponsible in what they chose to say in these virtual chats. How can you say something to a person, sarcastically and tell them him/her in the next second that you don't mean it, that you're just joking. And you drop a "lol"!

Please don't say something and then say you didn't mean it. What do you expect from the receiver? If you don't mean it, please don't say it. Especially in virtual world where I can't see your expression, and I really can't tell the difference between jokingly and seriously.

Please don't take the convenience of internet for granted.

That is why, one should never ever confessed by chatting. You see, you'll never know if this is serious.

Still Alive & Kicking

2011-03-13T16:26:00.002+08:00

So, here's the story of how a poor caterpillar accidentally came to FA lab.

One fine day, this poor fella fell on the wrong person at the wrong time. It fell on the shirt of a technician specialist in my lab and followed him back to the lab. When he found it, he felt disgusted and threw it into the the dustbin.

But the lab is full of sympathetic girls and women. They decided to pick it up from the dustbin, and kept inside a glass bottle.

Knowing our nature of job... We immediately "inspected" the caterpillar under the microscope! I got to tell you, it was rather interesting!!! Hahaha... But I told my friend, it is only cute when it's in the bottle. I don't want to have any contact with it.

I tried to feed it with leaves but it refused to eat any of them. My colleague thought it was too stressed out because of the way we handled it. I thought it wouldn't make it through the day and I will have an extra SEM specimen. I even googled "How to SEM insects" when I got home.

The next day, the first thing I looked for in the lab, is this poor fella. To my surprise, my operator told me it's still alive!! And it turned into a cocoon!!

A cocoon in my lab! How cool was that?!

Then suddenly, I have a whole new thing to do with this caterpillar. Instead of SEM it. I decided to keep it alive until the end of metamorphosis.

So, I gave it a big and comfortable house.
Like this :)

I hope it hasn't turned into a butterfly or moth yet, because we haven't been around for two days for weekend. Hope it's still in a cocoon and we will have the chance to witness it's transformation!

We kept a caterpillar in the lab as pet!

How cool is that! :)

It was Stressful

2011-03-13T00:44:00.003+08:00

过去几天，日本的天灾实在恐怖。地震、海啸，再来个power plant melt down。机场关闭，交通瘫痪。不管那个新闻网，都在报道。

好多人都知道毓豪和朋友在日本度假。纷纷问我他在日本如何。说真的，周五早上看见新闻，还是吓了一跳。幸得他所在的地方有wifi，向我报了平安，我也安心。

他们是很幸运的。原本这趟日本之行，包括东京。后来，他跟朋友说我很想去东京，这次还是去北海道好了。当初听了当然很高兴，现在更觉得幸运的不得了。北海道之行，他们到Hakodate去。离开以后，Hakodate淹水了。真的，上天保佑。

今天，我从早上都没有他的音讯。心里焦急。虽然昨天已知道一切安好，可还是情不自禁地担心起来。一直在查Haneda机场的讯息，八点钟发现他的班机不会延迟，稍感安慰。电话一响，我就紧张。可每次都不是他。直到晚上10点。

我从来没有这么不安。或许因为昨夜梦见海啸侵袭特别不安宁。或许网上的新闻真的搞到我心煌煌。这种感觉一点都不好受。

所幸，他已经上了飞机。明早6点，就会抵达新加坡。

我大可安心睡觉。

放假了！不是我⋯⋯

2011-03-03T22:07:00.003+08:00

男人放假了，在开始新的生活之前，到日本北海道好好玩一场。

好多人都问我为什么不跟他一起去？原因有几个。其一，本小姐的假每年都不够用。另外，他们四个男人打算疯疯狂狂，我出现了难免有点扫兴。他们不方便，我也不方便。所以干脆点，把假期留下，到别处去玩。

我们两个，总是各有个精彩。旁人不能明白，我也不明白为什么别人不明白⋯⋯不过，真的没有什么不好。我们总有很多故事告诉对方。

趁单身，玩够他一场！所以，他会玩得开开心心的。（所以我近年来很放肆，妈妈问我忙什么，忙着玩！）

纵使如此，回来难免觉得空荡荡。屋里多了一份清静。寂寞开始了。

明天，谁叫我醒⋯⋯

When Everything Seems Right

2011-03-01T21:39:00.002+08:00

There's nothing wrong with my life.

I have a job, happy with it.
I have a place to stay, even though it's just a rented place, but I'm happy with whom I stay with.
I have Yee Hau, family and friends when I need them.

When I look around, really, there's nothing wrong.

But did you ever have the feeling, when nothing seems wrong, it feels nothing's right too?

I don't really know how to describe the feeling. But that's exactly how I feel. Let's just call it quarter life crisis, which I always seem to have.

Life's like a party since December last year. Parties, gatherings, travel, celebrations, stay-over etc. After all these came to an end, coming into a quiet March, I actually feel, empty.

Where is the passion?
Where are the dreams?
Where are my determinations?

It's time to think, again.

Friends

2011-02-13T12:39:00.001+08:00

Watching "How I Met Your Mother" makes me missing my gang!

You guys know who you are :)

*hugs*

在别人眼中的你

2011-01-23T12:17:00.002+08:00

I think sometimes, it's rather interesting to understand from the others, what they think about yourself. Of course, you have to ask someone who will be definitely honest to you. And you yourself, have to be prepared of what others said about you, be it good or bad.

Just few days ago, a colleague of mine told me his point of view about me.

Unpredictable, can be explosive at times
Very adaptive, can survive in other teams in the department

Maybe I shall start collecting views from others and do a proper reflections of myself.

What do you think about me?

On the Way

2011-01-20T18:19:00.003+08:00

We're always on the way to somewhere or something. And believe me, on the way is a wonderful thing.

When you're tidying your room, you will first have to make a mess of the room. Things are out of the drawers and boxes before you sort them out and put them into places again. In the mess, you tell yourself, I'm on my way to a clean and neat room.

I'm having my braces. And every month my teeth make some progress, but there are still a lot of gaps to fill. But I tell myself, it's ok, my teeth are on their way to become neat.

When you're on your way, you know something good will come about. You know the results, you are anticipating it.

If you're not having a wonderful life now, if you feel that life sucks... Please, tell yourself "I'm on my way to wonderful things! I'm on my way to beautiful life!".

But don't forget to keep walking, if you don't, you're not on your way.

Peace

2011-01-17T21:02:00.003+08:00

It's such a cooling weather we have these days.

After work, I gave up the company free shuttle service, took a long walk, accompanied by Yo-Yo Ma & Wu Tong, from the office all the way to Alexandra Hospital. I made it slow, it was so slow, everybody just walked pass me. I don't know about you, walking slowly in such weather, has been quite therapeutic for me.

I am not in any troubles, I am not too stressed, I am not having any problems. But yet, by doing this just made me feel so peaceful.

What's more, I cooked myself a bowl of soup and rice when I got home. I haven't been cooking for myself for some time. Doing that, I just felt, satisfied.

I found peace in myself tonight :)

Different Concept

2011-01-15T23:54:00.003+08:00

I am frequently being misunderstood.

I have been frequently asked, "You seem so happy everyday. You must be so free at work, having nothing to do."

Yes, no doubt I'm almost always on the positive energy side, happy and excited, all smiles and laughs, but it doesn't mean I have nothing to do at work.

Why do we have to be grumpy just because we have work to do? We're paid to work, if you forgot. We have our monthly income because we're hired, and we work. So, why don't we just make our life better, by being happy. When we're happy, works seem easier don't they? At least to me.

I have my stresses too, but I always find a way to laugh, I try.

I'm so glad I have a team of happy colleagues, who make my working life interesting. And they never asked me "You seem so happy everyday. You must be so free at work, having nothing to do."

If you chose to be grumpy, so be it. Don't expect me to be the same. We're just different.

黄舒骏的歌词

2011-01-10T23:14:00.003+08:00

最近很想听黄舒骏的歌。发现自己电脑里只有几首，好沮丧，快快下载几首。

黄舒骏的词，是越看越精彩。听着“谈恋爱”几次⋯⋯太绝了吧！

《谈恋爱》
我真是愉快
能和你如此相爱
但是高兴之外
有些话必须说明白
我们现在相爱
但并不代表也包括未来
为了想永不分开
我们得做一些安排
我们要天天思念
但不要天天相见
只需要悱恻缠绵
绝不要柴米油盐
有共同生活经验
绝不用共同的房间
我们要天天思念
但不要天天相见
你可和别人约会
只要不让我发现
我偶尔也会出轨
但保证心在你这边
说出来有点不该
唉！但是又何耐
我想自古以来
人们总被自己打败
我们都喜新厌旧
我们都欲望太多
如此去芜存菁之后
让我们安心谈恋爱
只需要悱恻缠绵
绝不要柴米油盐
有共同生活经验
绝不用共同的房间
我们要天天思念
但不要天天相见
你可和别人约会
只要不让我发现
我偶尔也会出轨
但保证心在你这边
我们要天天思念
但不要天天相见
你负责美丽妖艳
我负责努力赚钱
如果想倒过来演
我当然也不会反对
我们要天天思念
但不要天天相见
万一要移情别恋
最好也和平解决
让回忆充满甜美
心甘情愿话当年

这么多年，还是觉得黄舒骏的歌词真棒！现在的歌词，已经找不到这种“精神”了！迷恋着～

My Year 2010

2010-12-30T14:22:00.002+08:00

I didn't travel as much as year 2009 in year 2010. But still, I think I had a good year :)

The last two days of year 2010, let me recall what I did over the entire year.

Spent my 2010 new year countdown in Taipei with my family & some of my extended family (3 cousins & my Er Yi). We had lots of fun and laughter, one of my best new year countdown ever.
Went to Cameron Highlands with Yee Hau :)
Started a daily photo blog from April till July, until I found myself lost of inspiration. But it's really interesting, because I found myself appreciate my daily life even more than ever.
Took part in Singapore Blog Award 2010, and unexpectedly got myself into top 3 (based on votes). I didn't win the award, but it was really a great experience that I never regretted for what I did.
Got my first very "mempersiasuikan" video interview for Singapore Blog Award 2010!
Watched Yo-Yo Ma & Silk Road Ensemble live! Got myself teary, the heart melted when the feelings from the pieces filled the room.
Got myself new idol after Silk Road Ensemble concert, Wu Tong. His incredible voice gave me goosebumps!
Watch "The Love Violin Concerto" by Tan Dun premier, but what a shame, it wasn't conducted by Tan Dun himself.
Went to SiChuan snow mountain in September and teared when I stood under the snow mountain.
Realized I need Yee Hau in my life, because he's my "regulator". The two weeks without him, I had a very chaotic life.
Went to a coffee tasting class in Starbucks, had 3 cups of coffee in 2 hours and love it!
Went to wine tasting class, had 6 glasses red, white and champagne in 2 hours!
Made very important decision of my lifetime, and ever since then, I decided to be more spontaneous when I still have the chance.
Had a couple of small and warm parties in our messy little flat, love it, and want to have more.
Had a couple of glasses of red wine, stayed up whole night to chit chat, and decided to continue the crazy night with a morning jog! At the very same evening, went to Wala Wala for a drink again... A record!
Woke up at 10.10am, on my birthday 101010. (not planned)
Got an iPhone (my first canggih phone) as birthday gift from Yee Hau :)
Learned how to brew fresh coffee because I got a coffee maker set as birthday gift from Da Jie :)
One year anniversary for my braces.
Ran my Standard Chartered half marathon, not the timing that I wanted, but it's better than my first half marathon and I didn't get knee ache this time. Good enough.
For the first time in my life, I got shooed out from airport because of "pest control". Spent two hours sitting on my luggage trolley outside the airport, using free airport Wifi to chat with Yee Hau on iPhone. And that, made my iPhone the best birthday gift ever!
Went to Shanghai to spend my Christmas with Kia Hooi. It's a shame we got cheated by weather forecast, there's no white Christmas.
Took bullet train for the first time in my life. Travelled 169km from Hangzhou to Shanghai, took me 45minutes only. Top speed 350km/hr. Impressed!
Feel sick at Ningbo, and for the first time of my travelling history, I spent most of the time sleeping in the city rather than touring.
For the first time of my life, I wanted to go home so badly during a trip. It's most likely due to cold and sickness. Spent a lot of money SMS-ing Yee Hau & my mom during that period of time. Aww...

I think I did a lot more than the above 25 items, but I don't think I can recall them one by one.

I made mistakes along the way. Learned from mistakes and really appreciate the loving people around me (family, Yee Hau, true friends) who pointed out to me.

At age 27, I tell myself I'm still young and should still continue the enthusiasm to learn and enjoy life with full passion. And at age 27, I realized it's so important to know what I really want so that I can work and strive. It's still not too late to realize, I hope.

But most of all, I really want to thank the people around me who make my life so interesting! My family & extended families, Yee Hau, my friends (in real and virtual world) and my colleagues!

Year 2010 had been great, and I believe year 2011 will be better!

Happy New Year everybody!

Off to a Holiday!

2010-12-21T23:38:00.001+08:00

I'll not be updating the blog probably, till next year.

I'll be spending some time in Shanghai, Ningbo & also HOME!

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!

芯荟，安息吧。

2010-12-19T23:02:00.005+08:00

We wake up every morning to fight with our alarm clock.
She woke up everyday, fought for her life.

We complain when we're having minor flu and cough.
She suffered from multiple seizures since she was a few months old.

She's a fighter, she fought for her life with an unimaginable spirit. She survived one after another hospital visits, but fate still took her away.

Maybe it's a relief for her, to end her sufferings.

May she rest in peace.

Her life may be short, one and a half year, but she taught us how to love.

芯荟，安息。

December, is to have FUN!

2010-12-13T23:53:00.003+08:00

I love December.

We don't get to have white Christmas, but it doesn't mean we can't have fun. I love Christmas trees, I love snowman, and I love all the Christmas goodies!

Two years back, we had a Christmas party at home in Penang. Last year however, we had the most disappointing Christmas in Taipei City, unexpected eh? This year, I have all the big and small parties coming before Christmas!!!

Our cozy (or messy) little flat will hold a small party this coming Friday. We will not have time to prepare the Christmasy food, so we decided to go for Shabu Shabu. But no worries, we'll get log cake and maybe ham to make it as Christmas as possible.

FA team has a yearly Christmas lunch, where the engineers and manager give the technicians and operators a treat, as appreciation for the one year contribution. The team will have gift exchange at the end of the lunch party every year. So, that'll happen on next Monday.

I'll be celebrating romantic Christmas with Kia Hooi in Shanghai this year. And I'll be joining her for a party on Boxing day with her colleagues. Sounds GREAT!

Due to my trip to Shanghai, I'll miss my Wu Yi's Christmas party in Penang. I chatted with her last Sunday, she promised I can request for food, and she will specially prepare for me! To make up the Christmas party that I will miss! I'd like to request for a Jamie Oliver X'mas!!!

That, will sum up for the parties that I will have for the next 3 weeks before we step into 2011.

>.<

Fairy Tales. Too Much.

2010-12-12T22:48:00.001+08:00

I'm running away with the sword.
To kill the metal beast!

(Inspired by Prince Edward in Enchanted)

It's a bit....

2010-11-29T23:26:00.002+08:00

I was running in the gym this evening after work. I planned to run at least 1.5hr today, and rest for the whole week till the actual Standard Chartered marathon.

Anyway, when I was at my last half an hour, the machine started to act weird. I wasn't holding the heart beat sensor at all, I never had the habit. But out of nowhere, the heart beat was 90. And it went pretty stable throughout the half an hour, from 88-91.

It's kinda freaky!

Luckily there were a lot of people in the gym, I didn't freak out. But I was trying to tell the machine, whispering in my heart, "Let me finish ok? It's just half an hour more."

:P

－－

2010-11-28T10:54:00.002+08:00

留在空中没说出来的话，不代表不存在。

说出来的话，也不代表真实。

什么才是真相？

长大后⋯⋯

2010-11-23T21:33:00.003+08:00

长大后，要做什么？

小时候，父母亲都很喜欢如此问。望子成龙，望女成凤，每个父母都逃不了这样希望。我不知道小时候我怎么回答，不过我知道有好些“长大后，要做⋯⋯”的事，都自己偷偷希望。

小时候，总会为了一些很奇怪的事情，开始崇拜。

不知道几岁的时候，我想成为消防员。原因？无他，就为了接到通紧急通知时，从钢铁上滑下来很酷！

又不知道几岁的时候，我想成为摩托赛车手。原因？无他，就为了转弯处膝盖碰地，不会跌倒，亦不会受伤，很酷！

也曾经希望成为鼓手，在台上挥着鼓棒，很酷的样子。偷偷告诉你，至今听歌，配乐里让人鼓舞的鼓声，还是让我蠢蠢欲动，想成为酷酷的鼓手。

想当的，还有很多很多⋯⋯

为什么都没有当上？

是我太懦弱？还是我只维持三分钟的热忱？

我想，我应该写封信给以前的我，道歉。
然后，再写封信给现在的我，鼓励。
接着，再写封信给以后的我，确定一切，我已经做了，没有懊悔。

已经没有“长大后⋯⋯”的资本了。

Something to Look Forward, Again :)

2010-11-21T01:34:00.003+08:00

I've caught up with the Air Asia X promotion on Monday, to purchase a pair of return ticket to HangZhou. But HZ isn't really my destination, I'm actually heading to Shanghai and Ningbo.

I'm never a fan of big city like Shanghai, the only reason I'm visiting this place, is my best friend, Kia Hooi. Since she's working in Ningbo, not too far from Shanghai (when you're looking in China context, far and near need some re-definition), I've been wanting to pay her a visit. I kept thinking and looking for a chance.

Now, here we go :)

I am looking forward, very much. I went to Kinokuniya on Friday after work, to get myself a good and quick guide. I was flipping through while I was waiting for Yee Hau, and I thought, I might like Shanghai after all.

Shanghai wasn't my cup of tea, back in year 2005. During my 3rd year in University, I was so determined, that I must get out of Singapore. I knew I couldn't afford an exchange programme, so when GIP was introduced, I was SO determined I MUST go for it. The first batch of seniors who came back from GIP China shared their experiences.

The one and only thing that I can remember from the sharing was, a senior who came back from internship from Shanghai, he said "Shanghai was great! It's like Singapore!" I was so sure, I'm not going to Shanghai.

So, at that time, all my applications went to Beijing, without even concerning what are the companies doing, I only wanted to get myself to Beijing. And I never regretted the decision, and I still very much missing the wonderful place.

Anyway, right now, after doing some tiny bits of research here and there, I think I may like Shanghai after all. And of course, Ningbo too!

♥

Happy Anniversary!

2010-11-20T00:39:00.002+08:00

To my dear braces...

19th November 2009, I had my braces on. One year from then, I'm still having them with me. I'm not hoping to celebrate this anniversary more than 2 years.

Anyway, I told my colleagues over the lunch, that it's my braces anniversary today. So he asked me, "How would you want to celebrate? Eat porridge?"

...

Speechless, but come to think of it, it's kinda true :P

Addict to Addiction (note to self)

2010-11-16T23:32:00.003+08:00

I addict to things easily. And my bad habit, once I got into it, I addict to my addictions. I know it's best to quit, but I just keep doing it, until, someone gets me out of it, or I finally know how bad things can be. I wouldn't prefer the latter.

And you know what's worst with addictions, you kind of go on a cycle of getting out of it, and coming back to it.

Wei Wei, bad habit, get them off!!!!

不要以为我很随便

2010-11-14T00:22:00.002+08:00

上周末，从槟城飞来新加坡，因为班机延迟了，所以没办法之下只好打计程车。看见T1的长龙，差点没晕倒，没有法子，只好等。

等着等着，在我前面的男人问我，这个时候还有地铁吗？我告诉他，有是有的，不过怕到了Tanah Merah没有connecting train了。他“噢”了一声，也没再继续。我就继续传简讯（现代人……）

过了一阵子，前面的男人又转过来问我是槟城人吗？我说是的，他的槟城口音也很重，一听就知道他是。他说了很多，我也忘了是什么，大约是在新加坡生活了多久之类的。然后，突然之间，话题就变得很奇怪。他说，他这把年纪，如果留在槟城早就娶老婆了，在新加坡很难找老婆，寂寞得很。我没能搭腔，只好笑笑。他问我干那行，我说工程。他说：“好啊，男生应该很多吧。你的机会可多哦！”

……

我含含糊糊的敷衍他，他还是不死心。在快到他上计程车的时候，他说，我们保持联络，交换电话好吗？

老兄，保持什么鬼联络，我和你聊天不到两分钟咯！我说不用了。他又说了一堆话，再问我，真的不交换电话。我说，不用。

他竟然一脸不悦，“那我先走了！”，转过身，继续等计程车。

我习惯了在机场或旅行的时候和身边的陌生人聊天，不过，第一次遇见同乡人和我聊天，竟是这样的！他开始和我聊天，竟是为了电话号码，我不给他，他就马上不说话了。这种#￥%……%—%*……*—（的男人！难怪没有女朋友！

他以为他这副德性随随便便在taxi stand可以pick up一个女生？我要是真的这么随便，也会找个帅哥啦，拜托！！！！

Mempersiasuikan Orang Penang!

赠卫八处士——杜甫

2010-11-10T23:06:00.003+08:00

我一直为我自己没有好好念唐诗而觉得惭愧。小时候，因为妈妈是唐诗三百首“迷”，我也有一本儿童唐诗三百首。不识字，但是整本书倒是背得朗朗上口。可是，长大后，懒惰了，就没再更深了解唐诗。

九月份在成都的书展，买了一本人民币10元的唐诗三百首，慢慢地读。

觉得这首诗不错，或许五十年以后的今天，我用得着。所以，在这里share一下。

人生不相见，动如参与商。
今夕复何夕，共此灯烛光。
少壮能几时，鬓发各已苍。
访旧半为鬼，惊呼热中肠。
焉知二十载，重上君子堂。
昔别君未婚，儿女忽成行。
怡然敬父执，问我来何方。
问答未及已，儿女罗酒浆。
夜雨剪春韭，新炊间黄粱。
主称会面难，一举累十觞。
十觞亦不醉，感子故意长。
明日隔山岳，世事两茫茫。

I Need Something New!

2010-11-10T22:42:00.005+08:00

I found that I've been repeating my dinner lately, I'm getting tired of it, so I need something new. Now, I'm addictive -ly clicking away in Jamie Oliver's website. And what's worse, I felt hungry as I clicked my way through. And I realized my fridge is just too small!!! My kitchen is too small!!!

Dinner is not the only thing needed to be new. I was browsing Olympus website (I do that occasionally) and found that they actually have promotion for existing E-system user for the new Olympus E-5. It's really tempting, it's year end, should I get it?!

I need a new phone too! My Sony Ericsson was half dead by the time it reached its one year anniversary. Now, it got crazier day by day, I'm just waiting to get my new phone!!! (But I've already guaranteed myself one, so no worry about this *wink*)

Oh man...

By the way, can anybody tell me how to make rolls? I want to make this!

Smoked salmon rolls

I'm Re-reading

2010-11-01T22:19:00.001+08:00

Thanks to Kia Hooi, who recommended this book to me years ago when I really needed it.

I recommended that to Sock Hoai after that, and she recommended that to a friend and the list goes on... It's a chain effect.

I'm re-reading it now, after all, I need them again.

=)

I'm a Sucker for British Accent Man

2010-10-23T23:32:00.003+08:00

Sock Hoai and I went to watch "I love you Philip Morris" last week, a gay movie starred by Ewan McGregor and Jim Carrey. Then we realized, we both like Ewan (OMG! Like so much!) and we're actually suckers for British accent guys.

Give me a random British man, I just love the way they speak. Everything sounds SO elegant.

Even when Simon Cowell is being so mean!

Even when they're so old! I still think Sean Connery is the best James Bond, but of course, he's best when he's Indiana Jones's father.

Even when they went to prostitutes.... :S

Even his hair is getting lesser and lesser... Still sexy!

And of course, when it comes to a combination of British accent, sexy & handsome look and good singer, I melt...

But wait, I think there's one British man whom I might not think he's sexy and elegant...

Haha!

He's Coming Back Tomorrow

2010-10-23T21:16:00.003+08:00

The Man is out of country for almost two weeks, and I have been pretty messed up for the two weeks too.

I've been having too much alcohol, too much caffeine, too little sleep, too much non-routine random life, too much junk food... And a lot of emotional ups and downs too. In conclusions, too much of not-too-good-for-you things, and too little of good-for-you things.

I've been feeling a little bit of lonely, and people around me suffer, because I get them to do things with me.

Finally, the Man is coming back to town tomorrow, and I think that's when everybody finally feels relieved, and I will get my life back to normal too!

Phewww...

Thoughts after Last Night

2010-10-16T15:41:00.005+08:00

Sock Hoai and I chatted the whole night last night, until we saw the purplish light came out from the skyline telling us it's actually morning.

I told her my secret dreams, my frustrations, my weaknesses, my happiness etc... Some of the things, are things I've never told anybody, that I've never have the guts to admit them myself. (That's the problem when you chat for the whole night, and especially you've already had some alcohol)

I was told a few days ago, to do what I want to do when I'm still young because the courage gets lesser as you age.

To put it in another way, you're not doing anything fun and spontaneous anymore!

Talking to Sock Hoai had made me think of a lot of things that I want to achieve, but had not yet achieved, some of them are not even on the way. I realized how much more effort I have to continue to put in, before I die with regrets.

If you have purpose to fulfill, the Beings up in the Heaven will know, and they won't take you away before you achieve them! That's how I remind myself every now and then, so that I work towards what I want.

Ask yourself, if you're given a day to be spontaneous, and that you have nothing to lose, what will you do?

I'm feeling spontaneous now!

比赛

2010-10-14T21:48:00.002+08:00

人，天生犯贱。没有“竞争者”在身旁，会渐渐变得舒适，懒惰。

“竞争者”来了，好胜心驱使下，加把劲，向前冲。

你猜，我现在身旁有没有竞争者？

1010101010

2010-10-11T23:33:00.003+08:00

I'm officially 27 year old yesterday. And, I am not any wiser.

I happened to wake up at 10.10am on 101010. My alarm clock was snoozing crazily since 9.30am in the morning, I kept switching them off until I saw this magical code, 1010101010. Hence, I decided to wake up.

I just thought it's kinda fun. Like I told you, I'm not getting wiser, I realized, I'm still a kid who believes (chose to believe) Peter Pan is real.

I should probably be serious on listing down what I've done in 27 years of my life, and what I should do in the next 2-5 years. But unfortunately, I'm a bit light headed now, as I'm drinking a little bit of beer that Yee Hau bought to celebrate my birthday before he flew to Nepal.

The Man really knows how to surprise me when I least expected anything from his busy schedule. He was so busy preparing Nepal trip, I really never expected any celebration. It's not easy to organize a mission trip. What he did, although it's such simple gesture, moved me to tears. (It's really easy!)

I have got no candles, no birthday songs, but that are not what I need. My family, YH, friends and relatives have already made my day :)

I love the world!

Like Discovery Channel said, the world is awesome!

Let's carry on :)

我回来了（转自摄界）

2010-09-22T23:20:00.002+08:00

摄于亚丁，四川

我回来了！

刚刚把我相机里所有照片看了一遍，决定以这张来公布，我已经回来了。

我，人回来了，却把心，留在山上了。

玩失踪

2010-09-07T21:53:00.001+08:00

到四川去

回来再见～

Important Lessons from Yo-Yo Ma

2010-08-22T12:41:00.007+08:00

Long ago...

2008

At the age of 55 (as of year 2010), Yo-Yo Ma looks young at his age. Browsing through his fans site and official website, it's not hard to notice, this great musician had not changed a lot throughout the years, except for the hairstyle and the spectacles.

I never interviewed him (DUH~), but through his numerous interviews, performances, videos, music, I have concluded one thing about his secret to stay young.

Be passion, stay young, never stop learning, and help others to success!

Be Passion
Needless to say, Yo-Yo Ma's music is one of the most fascinating ones. His passion was fully expressed in his work, and when you're in his live performance, the happiness from the music, filled the entire hall. That will bring you to tears, that will fill your heart.

This passion, I believe, is what that keeps him so young and happy, even at age of 55.

Stay Young
From his videos and interviews, I always imagine Yo-Yo Ma to be a playful person. Traveling around the world, knowing and giving young musicians advice, playing music with people from all walks of life, he always seems to be such a happy person.

Never fear of trying, I think is how he stay young at heart at all times.

Never Stop Learning
He's never content with just classical music. That's why, he explored tango, original soundtrack of a lot of block buster movies, Silk Road Project etc.

Never stop learning, keep going.

Help Others to Success
The most beautiful concert this year, will be Yo-Yo Ma & The Silk Road Ensemble. I love Yo-Yo Ma even more, and I discovered my love to another younger musician, Wu Tong too. Immediately after the concert, we were goggling about Wu Tong and found that he owed part of his fame, to Yo-Yo Ma.

In the concert back in April 30th, we could clearly see how Yo-Yo Ma gave the attention to Wu Tong instead of himself. Even though he truly 100% knew, 100% of the audience were there because of his name. But the center stage, was mostly given to this younger musician.

This selfless image of Yo-Yo Ma, had taught us to help others to success when you're already had enough of it.

So remember,

Be Passion at What You Do

Stay Young at Heart

Never Stop Learning

Help Others to Success

And you will stay young forever!

我与九寨沟——无缘

2010-08-21T12:57:00.003+08:00

和姐姐盼了很久的九月份九寨沟之游，即将成为我们这趟旅游的遗憾。

去年，想去四川，但因为汶川大地震，心里觉得不好受，没去。可今年年头，我们定了下个月的机票，可是人算总是不如天算。近来，暴雨连连，很多地方都遭洪水破坏了，淹水，塌方。很多旅游的地方，都受影响。通往九寨沟的路线，也暂时关闭了。

原想去那里，学长曼玉“轻功水上漂”，也没有机会了。都江堰、黄龙、卧龙、九寨沟整条路线玩不成。乐山峨眉，好像也去不成了。

唯有重新做功课，计划另一条路线。（现在，四川新闻网天天上，关注气象和灾情路况）

看来，我们还是会再到四川，祢补去不成九寨沟的遗憾⋯⋯

Addiction

2010-08-18T23:22:00.002+08:00

It's not too difficult to sink myself into waves and waves of addiction.

I've found a very addictive website, which I think it's too good to be kept for myself.

The Pioneer Woman

Cooking & Photography, enough to get me clicking the pages on and on...

My Cool Brother

2010-08-18T22:05:00.004+08:00

The moment I saw this photo at En's FB profile, the first thought I had was an image from any random page of magazine. But, the colour was wrong.

So, as a beloved Er Jie, I can't help but to get the original photo from him, and turned it into something I prefer.

Kinda star look, isn't he?

Happy Birthday En En!

2010-08-01T14:01:00.002+08:00

Photo courtesy of Ah Yang

This cute little boy is my younger brother, in case you don't know him.

He turned 18 today! Time flies and I always wish he's still the little brother I "used" as remote control back then. But we can't stay cute forever, so he's all grown up to a.... much normal adrenaline high teenager.

Cat acting, Sing Sing Car, traffic jam cars, Mahathir posters, volcanoes, bowling pins, soccer etc etc, those were all back to the good old days. Now, he's a 100% tech savvy and car lover. Though he no longer is my remote control, he's a very reliable driver at home now.

Not long after today, he'll be flying out from home, studying elsewhere in University and bringing home girl friend(s). Man, I still wish he's the little boy!!!

Anyway, Happy Birthday Ah En!

Er Jie loves you :)

Inception

2010-07-31T01:42:00.002+08:00

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I wanted to and tried to blog about this movie after I watched, but I can't put words into it.

So, I just want to tell you.

JUST WATCH IT!!!!

P.S.
I love all the casts in the movie. I always am a fan of Leonardo, and I like Ken Watanabe since he played in The Last Samurai. But now, I like Arthur (Joseph Gordon Levitt), Eames (Tom Hardy), Ariadne (Ellen Page). Especially Arthur to be honest, I really think he's very cool!

:)

Nodame Cantabile Finale

2010-07-27T22:58:00.003+08:00

Finally, after a 3 months of long wait, the finale is here!

After 3 months, I can't really remember the details of the first part movie. So, on Friday night before we watched the show on Saturday, we did our very own movie screening at home. So the first part ended with Nodame feeling sad that Chiaki can do so well compared to her. And her professor asked her to stay apart from Chiaki for some time, for her own good.

I like the first part compared to the finale. I think because the first part, Nodame was the Nodame we knew from drama, crazy and unreasonable. To the finale, Nodame has grown up, she's a little bit sadder in character, and more mature. Less craziness.

However, good thing about this finale was, some of the lovable characters from drama played a part too. Masumi, Ryu and Miki. It's just nice to see them together. And not to forget about Ryu's father. Kind and lovable, and creative on the set lunch's name, like "Nodame beef set lunch" :P

There's a new instrument introduced in finale, which is theremin. Watch this video to understand what is a theremin :)

But still, the movie guaranteed you a good laugh from start till the end. No doubt about that.

It's been so many years since we started to watch the drama. I remember we were still in our final year. And now, we're already in 3rd year of working life. Time flies.

The finale of Nodame is kind of like a "full stop" of certain part of the memories. Kind of.

Please, don't try to watch this if you've never watched the drama, the special episode, the first part!

The Soloist

2010-07-13T17:34:00.005+08:00

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Plot:

Steve Lopez (Robert Downey Jr) from LA Times met Nathaniel Ayers (Jamie Foxx) when he was playing violin by the street, with two strings. Steve found out that Nathaniel is a child prodigy and was once a student in Julliard College, and hence decided to write a column of Nathaniel's story.

On Steve's way to find out more stories of Nathaniel, they had developed a special friendship. While writing about his life, Steve was trying to improve Nathaniel's quality of life, and also the mental state. But frustrations came when Nathaniel refused to cooperate.

Steve's good intention wasn't fully received by Nathaniel, but the friendship remained.

Reviews:

It was a really funny show, and yet sad at the same time.

It did make me ponder, on the good intentions we have to help people, how much will it be well received by the receiver? How much did the receiver want help from us? Did we ever ask before we offer? Or we force our way through to earn our karma?

I am always a fan of Robert Downey Jr. And I've watched some shows of Jamie Foxx, but in this show, he's exceptionally good. Even better than Robert Downey Jr.

Verdict:

Definitely worth to watch!
(I wonder how did I miss this show last year. I found out from my colleague that this show was only shown in Singapore for a very short period of time, with almost no publicity. What a waste!)

The Best Love Story in 5 Minutes

2010-07-08T23:52:00.003+08:00

Since I was in all the love story mode last weekend, I can't get rid of this best 5 minutes moment from "Up".

This was the best ever! Short & sweet, and touched your heart at every corner.

Despicable Me

2010-07-06T20:54:00.005+08:00

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情节（如果不想破坏自己看电影的新鲜感，请看结论）：

Gru一心一意想成为世上的第一大坏蛋，得知Vector偷走了金字塔而引起世界的轰动而感到非常的不满，因此决心要盗个比金字塔还轰动的——月亮。

要把月亮偷来，就得靠“缩小”仪器（小叮当的百包袋里有），把月亮缩小才带回地球。可是那仪器落入Vector的手中，Gru想尽办法，都入不了Vector的城堡。

无意间，让Gru发现Vector爱吃饼干，而且，还轻易的让三个孤儿院的小女孩进入他家，兜售饼干，还下了一笔可观的订单。Gru因此到孤儿院领养三个小女孩，想趁她们送饼干的时候偷偷溜进屋子，把仪器偷走。

一路走来，原本很厌恶小孩子的他，慢慢地爱上这些女孩。而担当起一个真正的父亲的责任。

后来月亮偷了，也还给了天空。女孩子们变成了他的女儿，坏人留在月亮回不了地球。故事就这样经典的圆满结束。

结论：

很经典的动画故事，坏人好人两方拼。不同的事，所谓的好人，Gru也是个大坏蛋，只是有另一个比他更坏的敌人，Vector，而显示出他比较好。不过说了是经典动画故事，坏蛋总是有点疯癫，说坏嘛，也不过是搞笑。这就是动画美好的一面。

情节的节奏有点快，有些应该可以感人的地方，还是欠缺了一点什么。如果可以更细腻的描写角色的感情，就可以融合娱乐和感人于这部动画之中。

3D效果很不错，不过，动画的仔细程度，不能媲美近期也刚刚上映的Toy Story 3，故事情节也是输了一载。不过，下班后当作是纾解压力的娱乐，是相当合适的。

意外惊喜：

Julie Andrews竟然有为这部电影配音，配的是Gru的妈妈。

Minion原来是个荧光棒。（这个情节，是本人认为全套动画里最最最好笑的一节）

Thank you omy for the movie preview!

很久都没有这样疯狂（无聊）

2010-07-04T15:20:00.002+08:00

不知道为了什么，我这个周末特别懒惰。什么都提不起劲，唯有赖在苹果前看了一部又一部的电影。总共看了四部。（好几年都没有这样了，最后一次我在电脑前看马拉松电影，应该是大学时代了）

我想这部戏大概是在讽刺所谓的secret agent吧。整部电影，不管是真的CIA，还是退役的，还是普通市民，都在跟踪。

可是，为了什么跟踪，为了什么怀疑，为了什么杀人，都没有人知道。

电影结束以后，其实只是一场又一场的误会。

人死了，埋了。秘密收藏了，CIA总部耸耸肩。

算是带点黑色幽默的电影。

泪腺很浅的我，看着这部电影，泪流到不象人。

一段唯美的爱情，就是因为唯美，才需要电影。

我突然也很想写情书⋯⋯

看这部电影之前，一直觉得刘若英配张学友太奇怪了点。可是看着看着，还是挺顺眼的。

这部电影有点像好莱坞的New York I Love You（虽然我还没看），是很多不同人不同环境谱出的恋情。

无聊的时候，就是需要一点，这类轻松的爱情片。

海角七号，因为还想看一部流泪的电影。可是，有点失望，海角七号并不是预想中的那么好看。普普通通，爱情介于唯美和现实之中。

不想一般唯美爱情的电影，也不像现代城市的爱情。一半一半吧。

和“情书”一样，故事围绕着情书发展。

因为生活实现是的，因为生命里没有唯美的爱情，所以我们需要电影。只有电影才能实现一些不现实的想法，一些无厘头的梦想。

上网爱情

2010-06-21T20:30:00.003+08:00

这个年代的谈恋爱比以前难多了。

以前分手，是两个人的事。闹不和或和平分手，只有你们两人的事。

以前结婚，摆个喜酒，请请亲朋戚友，高高兴兴闹一天，然后（打算）白头偕老。又或者，干脆签个字，旅个行，回来派张照片，小两口快乐就好。

以前谈一场恋爱，真的只有两个人。

现在，你没有update你交友网站上的status，朋友会提醒你。你update了，很多人来留言。你post张亲密照片，朋友（不熟或不认识的）来问你几时结婚请客。你post结婚照，朋友（不熟或不认识，真气人）来问你为什么不请他。

最尴尬是分手。两人的亲密合照，更糟的是，两人以往在wall上让人喷血的对话。分手了，要delete吗？要假装不知道吗？还是干脆开一个新户口，重新做人？

我人老了。觉得，新时代有点吃不消。

我看，还是写情书好一点。

Happy 3rd Year

2010-06-11T00:21:00.002+08:00

11th June marks the official 3 years of my working life, in the same company, the first job in my life.

3 years didn't seem too long, they past in a blink of eyes. I've definitely got some complaints made along the way, but overall, I'm still as happy as I was. Life isn't just about work in the office, it's about how we make it interesting.

I've learned a lot throughout the years. I'm glad my colleagues are good ones, willing to share and teach, and even willing to take in my nonsense most of the days. I am really glad they do.

I've met good people, but I've got some bad ones too, who can completely turn my days upside down. But I am glad, that there are more good than bad ones. So, the world is still beautiful. Let the bad ones suffer with their karma in their future or next life. I don't have to punish them.

I just want to thank everybody, family, Yee Hau, friends and colleagues and even enemies (If I've made some without knowing), without you, I wouldn't have make it till today :)

Way to go!

加油！

Pasta with Bacon, Mushroom & Peas in Creamy White Wine Sauce

2010-06-08T21:17:00.003+08:00

Ingredients:

1. Pasta of your choice

2. Streaky bacon

3. Button Mushrooms

4. Peas

5. Garlic

For the sauce:

1. Cream

2. White wine

3. Grated Parmesan Cheese

4. Butter

For dressing and garnishes:

1. Garlic salt

2. Pepper

3. Parsley

Method:

1. Cook the pasta to al Dante

2. While cooking the pasta, sautee the chopped garlic with butter

3. Add in the roughly chopped streaky bacon when the garlic turned brownish

4. Add in the sliced button mushrooms into the pan when streaky bacon turned slightly crispy

5. Cook till the water secrete from mushrooms are slightly dried up

6. Throw the peas into the pasta pot at the last minute of your pasta cooking while cooking the mushrooms and bacons

7. Add in cream, white wine, garlic salt and grated parmesan cheese and stir well

8. Drain the cooked pasta and peas

9. Immediately pour the pasta into the pan and stir well to make sure every strand of your pasta is coated with the wonderful sauce

10. Serve on your plate and dress with freshly ground pepper and parsley

Simple and Delicious!

I'm Impressed!

2010-06-06T17:21:00.002+08:00

I was sending emails moments ago.

When I pressed "Send" as usual, there was a dialogue asking me "Did you mean to attach files? You wrote "I have attached" in your message, but there are no files attached. Send anyway?"

Man, how could I not impressed!

>.<

Is that a Sign?

2010-06-02T00:13:00.002+08:00

今早，一面工作的时候，我的脑海不听使唤的一直唱着这首个。

人生旅途难免崎岖
今天或有骤雨
明日会天清风也吹
人生旅途全靠争取
唏嘘尽已别去
前路有新的一天要面对

（歌词取自张学友“独寻醉”）

早上觉得歌词有激励性，晚上，我开始觉得是一个讯息？

我应该追踪这条讯息的路？

还是⋯⋯

老实告诉你

2010-05-27T22:25:00.003+08:00

我还是很高兴。

从周一到今天，我的心情都是美美的。虽然，偶尔还是会为了点小小的事情蓝蓝的，可是整体的说，还是好的。全因为一封电邮。

我入围了！

入围最佳摄影部落格。

这等事，能不高兴吗？

当初报名的时候，其实纯粹为了希望那小小的摄界，可以在那里得到一点点游览率。小小的愿望，大大的惊喜！朋友说得对，在你没有期望什么的时候，惊喜就会来报到。

在这里还是不忘拉票，如果喜欢我的摄界，记得投我以票哦！

汤杯还会回来吗？

2010-05-15T12:13:00.003+08:00

很难得马来西亚有那么出色的第一男单，汤杯还是离我们远远的。拿督李年纪也不小了，马来西亚羽球也不能老靠他，在加上马来西亚球员的心理素质往往不够中国球员好，靠他们总是让人心碎。

1992年的汤杯，是越来越遥远了。当时，整个男团都很出色。现在，最有希望的都让人失望，尤其第一男双，还活在全英赛的骄傲，身材走样，动作不灵活，看得国人心碎。反而老将第二男单尽心尽力的打，虽然知道他赢不了，可看陈金扑前扑后，还是比较爽。

黄宗韩当年的对手，夏煊泽老早当教练，他却还在球场上拼搏，青黄不接就是马来西亚的问题。

说起夏煊泽，看到他还是挺怀念的。以前，他是我的偶像。黄宗韩遇到夏煊泽，就是“逢夏必败”，每次两者对打，我都很为难不知道该支持谁。一个是偶像，一个是国家。

每次都说对他们太失望，以后都不看，可是每次都忍不住看，然后⋯⋯唉声叹气。

汤杯还会回来吗？再等二几十年吧⋯⋯

Thank You Omy for Robin Hood Preview

2010-05-12T12:43:00.007+08:00

Robin Hood was my favourite childhood cartoon, for no particular reason. Maybe it's the handsome fox that did the magic? Or maybe, it's the funny lion Prince John? I have no idea at all, seriously.

I never read synopsis before I watch movie, I never did. It's simply not my habit, because I want to have 100% surprise from the movie. And I did. I didn't know that this show is actually the making of "Robin Hood became an outlaw". So the show started with him in the wars, and how did he fight along with friends to go back to London. And of course, how he knew Lady Marian. And finally, ended the movie becoming an outlaw.

And all the time, I was waiting for Robin Hood to raise his bow & arrow, and be chased by the palace guards. It didn't happen, at least not the first 2 hours and 25 mins of the show.

My personal opinion, is that the story has been emphasizing a little bit too much on the love story between Robin Hood and Lady Marian. Robin Hood is about his friendship with his fellow friends whom he fought along with. Besides, kissing in the middle of battle with French and didn't get hurt is a miracle. (I thought it was a lame scene)

Watching Robin Hood did make me feel very nostalgic of my childhood. And please, just let me share a little clip from Robin Hood back in 1973.

Side note, the sceneries in the movie were very nice!

笑

2010-05-07T23:58:00.004+08:00

笑，有很多意思。

最简单的，是发自心里的笑。这种笑，不管是微笑，小声笑，大声笑，都让周遭人感到舒服。因为，那是一种真诚的感觉。这种笑，旁人不用多加一份心思去分析。

另一种，是化解尴尬气氛的笑。比如说，三个人在聊天。A说了一句B不想听，更不想做回应的话。那么，C就假假说了一些无聊的笑话，然后自己假假的笑。希望可以化解尴尬，或者说，至少让自己不尴尬。可是，成功率，只是一半半。

还有一种笑，是掩饰自己的笑。比如说，有位不知死活的人，突然有天不想活了，对你说：“哇！你好像越来越胖了哦！”，还要很大声那样的嘲笑你。可是，在众人面前你不想发火。你笑笑地说：“是啊，老公养得我很好啊。”，即使你已经很想揍他。

然后，最让人捉不着、摸不透的，就是无时无刻都在笑。这种笑很可怕，因为，此人明明是在臭脸干着一码事，可是一有人接近他，他会突然笑起来，很亲切。这种，叫做难以琢磨的笑。

相同一个字，这么多文化，这么多层面。

可是，只有真正从内心出发的笑，才会体现在你的双眼。其他的，只是部分肌肉抽动的动作。

你，今天让哪个脸部肌肉运动了？

Pixar Exhibition in Singapore Science Centre

2010-05-03T22:49:00.004+08:00

我姐弟仨一直都是Pixar的超级粉丝，从来没有错过任何一步Pixar的动画片，更连各个短片都看过了。这次姐姐到新加坡来看马友友，碰巧新加坡科学馆在搞Pixar的展览，我们当然不放过。

门票二十元，原觉得有点贵，但后来看完之后，就觉得很值得了。我知道此公司搞动画非常细心，可从来没想过是如此的细心。比方说，Ratatoullie里的那只小老鼠的草稿，是一张类似graphics drawing的图，老鼠的前后左右，上下，甚至连老鼠的腰围都有标明！

最让人惊叹的，是Toy Story的Zoetrope。

当然，既然是Pixar，也就不乏好笑的。比如，他们Xray了Toy Story里头的玩具。猪猪扑满里，空空的，只有钱币。我也不知道，他们是否着的X光了吗？还是制造出这些图画来。

Pixar对动画的认真，实在是让人钦佩。同时，也非常搞笑。在创造动画角色的时候，为了让角色表情更动人，创造者把自己的演出录了下来，然后研究演绎该角色的脸部表情，将此融入动画里，我们才有如此逼真的动画。

我们在里面逗留了两个小时，如果要逗留更久都可以，可是我们还得赶去机场，所以有些东西，是草草看过。

要在这里细说，是不可能的。所以，自己体会去吧！绝对值得！

I Love Silk Road. I Love Yo-Yo Ma

2010-05-03T16:01:00.002+08:00

Yo Yo Ma-Silk Road Ensemble

2010-05-03T11:57:00.004+08:00

音乐会圆满结束，我拍烂了手掌，却也挽留不了马友友再演奏多一点。

我们两姐妹一直都是马友友的粉丝。自从买了音乐会门票，我们都一直期待着。期待，现场体会马友友用大提琴歌唱的一刻。

这次的音乐会主题，是“The Silk Road Ensemble”，是这个Project的十周年纪念巡回演出。

看了这场音乐会，你唯有更爱马友友。整个晚上，我只感觉到马友友和一团乐手，都是那么的开心，都是那么的热爱他们的音乐。他们没有制服，大家都穿着各自的颜色，轻松自如的，在台上互动，仿佛观众是不存在的。我可以看见，马友友一直在歌唱，一直在微笑。我也可以看见，众乐手也是和他一样开心。

更爱马友友的原因，是他是如此的谦虚。他肯定知道在场的观众，全是为了他的大名而来。可他只是扮演一个团员的角色，把音乐奏好。没有刻意突出自己，更让一些年轻的演员发挥。安哥的时候，也没有刻意玩弄一手，来一段大提琴独奏，没有，都没有。他只是一个丝绸之路的团员。这么有名，却这么谦虚。虽然我为了他没有独奏，觉得有一点点遗憾，可是却为了他这种大量的性格，更崇拜他。

也因为这个音乐会，我们爱上了另一位乐手——吴彤。他的笙，是如此动人。他的笛，是如此清脆。他的歌声，让人感动。回家谷歌了一番，才知道他真是一位音乐才子。他有一个摇滚乐团，名叫“轮回”。从小学习中西乐不同乐器。是很多乐团的团员，当然，包括丝绸之路。

音乐会曲子，都非传统音乐。很多人或许不喜欢，可是，我们不是应该象马友友一样，尝试多样化，让生命更精彩吗？马友友一代大提琴大师，可以没有架子的，上“芝麻街”当客串、演奏各型各类的电影院声带、尝试各种传统和非传统的演义，才有今天精彩的艳出。我们又为了什么只把自己听歌的范围缩小呢？

真希望马友友会再到新加坡或马来西亚演出，我一定看！

看了这个影片，你就会明白我们爱上马友友和吴彤的原因。

Conclusion of the concert, it worths every second and cent!

おにぎり (Onigiri)

2010-04-28T23:48:00.002+08:00

鮭おにぎり (Salmon Onigiri)

鮪おにぎり (Tuna Onigiri)

If you'd read my photo blog, you would know I'm currently a big fan of onigiri >.<

Ingredients:

1. Japanese short grain rice

2. Japanese vinegar

3. Pinch of salt

4. Salmon or Tuna (TC Boy Tuna in Vegetable Oil-Kia Hooi, I help you to advertise!) or any other fillings of your choice (I am thinking of bacon for the future onigiri)

5. Furikake or Sesame for the toppings

6. Seaweed

Method:

1. Japanese rice to water ratio 1:1.5.

2. Let the rice sit in the rice cooker for 15 mins more after it's cooked.

3. Add a spoonful (Chinese soup spoon) of vinegar into the rice, and fluff the rice.

4. Wet your hands, coat with a bit of salt when you make the rice ball.

5. Top with furikake or black sesame.

6. Wrap with seaweed.

Fillings:

For salmon,

1. Marinate salmon with salt (I like to use garlic salt), extra virgin olive oil and a bit of parsley for about half an hour.

2. Pan fry the marinated salmon with butter.

3. Do not overcook salmon, fry with medium heat and turn off the heat as soon as the salmon turned pink.

4. Seared the salmon into pieces. You can also add some pepper.

For Tuna (use white meat tuna for better taste, as Kia Hooi taught me!)

1. You don't have to do anything. Unless you need more flavor, you could add some pepper to it.

You can either wrap a little fillings into the rice ball like I did for my salmon onigiri (first picture) or mix the fillings together with rice when you're fluffing it (second picture). The latter helps to save some time.

For overnight onigiri, Sheena taught me to pan fried it with sesame oil. It's fragrant and delicious :)

I'm loving it~

网络上的友谊

2010-04-25T00:25:00.003+08:00

我从来没有试过在网络结交不认识的朋友。可是，事情总有例外。

Sheena是佳慧的大学同学（所以严格来说，也不算完全没有联系），我俩透过彼此的部落，还有佳慧，“认识”对方。可是，我们从来没有见过面。我们的结交，纯粹透过彼此的部落。我对她没什么了解，可是在MSN聊天的时候，总可以聊个上天下地，没完没了。

相隔半个地球那样远，我总告诉佳慧，应该和Sheena一起到宁波找她，一起去玩！不知道这样的机会，要等到几时？

谭盾小提琴协奏音乐会回来，看见Sheena写得这么一个entry，嘻嘻，想炫耀一下！

“Wei and I have never met each other, neither would I say we know each other well. But there's a mutual interest, an agreeable mind and thoughts that could travel miles. I trust in her pick of books, her views through the lense, her taste on food, her values of life. I feel I do know you, after all. One day, we shall meet and I shall share my 'evenings' with your 'mornings'?”

谢谢！

The Love Violin Concerto by Tan Dun

2010-04-24T23:28:00.004+08:00

I like Tan Dun, ever since I saw his interview with Lu Yu. He's such a romantic, cute, happy person, full of enthusiasm to his life and music.

When I knew SSO was going to play Tan Dun's new Violin Concerto, I was happy, I thought he's coming to Singapore to conduct his own piece! But to my disappointment, he's not. But I still invited Sock Hoai and so we went.

I know Tan Dun's pieces were always a bit different from the conservative classical that we know. But this new piece, is top of the it! But yet, it's such a suspense that holds your attention to listen through the whole piece.

I do not know whether it's because he had been composing a lot of soundtracks, listening to this violin concerto felt like watching a movie. A movie, with chasing scenes in a chaotic city, cars and people in the background. At times those people ran into park, where there are families in the background. At times they're in the alley. At times they even ran into Chinatown! And this piece definitely ended with a bang.

Well, maybe one day Tan Dun will be here, conducting his own pieces, and I'll attend :)

Other pieces of the concert were not popular classical pieces, but I kinda like them too. And they're all new to me!

1. Academic Festival Overture by Johannes Brahms

2. The Love Violin Concerto by Tan Dun

3. Tragic Festival Overture by Johannes Brahms

4. The Miraculous Mandarin by Bela Bartok

1英里之差

2010-04-22T01:03:00.003+08:00

我从小到大就是这样，想做一件事情，我会一直想。一直想着、念着，直到我达到为止。

今天约好来新公干的文鸣在乌节路吃晚餐。趁大家还没到，我提早到Kinokuniya，只为了这个。

我一直都不是一个很有创意的人。往往想做一件事，是因为受了一些事情的启发。上周，我在Kinokuniya看见一本摄影书，由两位相距3191英里的朋友，每天早上拍了照片，在一个共有的部落上载，维持了一年。我就是为了这本书，开始了我的摄影日志。

我两周前在书局看到这本书以后，一直念念不忘。可是把3191，记成3192，结果在谷歌搜索了好久，什么都搜不到，所以一直对回去书局把网站记下的这件事念念不忘。终于都让我做到了！现在，我已经把网站链接了~

我为了这个1英里，想了两个星期呐！

Totally Immersed in my Homework

2010-04-21T12:48:00.004+08:00

I have assigned a homework to myself, which is, to post a photo a day on my photo blog, like a photo diary for my own.

After a few days, I realized, that is a damn tough job! Why did I sign myself in to this in the first place? Most of my photos were taken in the evening, after work. (Obviously, I can't do those at work) And there were days I skipped because I reached home too late, and it was sometimes past 12am to the next day, there's no way to turn the clock back just for "daily photo" (Excuses.... obviously)

The most difficult part is, what should I take on my routine daily life?

However, it may seem crazy, but I've been enjoying this tough assignment. As Sheena mentioned, it helps me to pay more attention to little things that happen in daily life. Which is so true.

Maybe 365 days from now, when I look back to this collection, I will feel very satisfied for what I've done :)

Assignment for myself is always better than assignments from teachers :p

(The photos were labeled as Daily Scribble in Photo Blog)

叶问2

2010-04-18T21:01:00.000+08:00

很期待！

少讨厌一个人，对自己好一点

2010-04-17T00:29:00.002+08:00

我才知道，那个我曾经觉得，ok la的人，其实不喜欢我，甚至有点讨厌我。

我没有感到特别伤心，反正活在这世界也不是为了讨好每个人。虽然曾经有闹过意见不和，不过闹过就算，人生这么短何必在意。

讨厌一个人，是一件很累的事。

对自己好一点，就少讨厌一个人，多喜欢一个人。

Nando's Chicken

2010-04-11T20:13:00.002+08:00

The last day of my home trip was spent for 扫墓 at Penang Island, my grandparents. We woke up early morning, packed everything needed for 扫墓 as well as my bag pack to fly back to Singapore.

It was unearthly 6am when we departed from home. I didn't bring my camera up to the hill along as I thought my mom will scold, but ended up she didn't scold my sister. Next year, I'll bring.

After扫墓, there's no point to go back to BM and then came out to airport again. So we had our breakfast dim sum then shopping at Gurney Plaza. Didn't get anything, but I've got my long missing Nando's Chicken in Gurney Plaza before I flew to Singapore.

There's no Nando's Chicken here in Singapore, but there's one Nando's alike, called Barcelos. I don't quite like it, it's more expensive, and definitely not as tasty. Things back home, are always the best.

We're all full from our breakfast, so mom and dad ordered the half chicken set to share. Looks yummy isn't it?

Ah En, YY and I shared a platter. YY and I couldn't stop taking photos, but the food were so tempting, my dad just had to make us act faster! Hahaha.... It's really hard for them to have a good meal when YY and I brought our cameras along. Pity...

A meal at Nando's before departing to the Lion City, real good. But it's never as good as dining at home.

Mom's cooking is still the best in the world.

成功

2010-04-10T23:41:00.002+08:00

“某某才工作几年，已经升级两次，月薪五位数，利害哦！年纪轻轻，就是一位成功人士！”

这种对话，相信对谁都不陌生。当年年纪小，听了当然是点头赞成。对啊对啊，谁谁身价百万，某某公司高级人员……很成功！

不过，现在长大（老）了，渐渐不被这种对话吸引。

从小，我就养成一副“轻松派”的模样。虽然遇上考试比赛等，压力还是有的，可往往外表没怎么样看出来（除了青春痘之外）。没辙，家里有个“不长进”的舅舅，从小就没做好榜样，隔天考STPM，他在家拼金庸。我也有样学样咯~只是，功力比他低很多。可是，那种轻松，一直就耕在性格里。

出来社会工作了，偶尔觉得迷失方向，觉得自己不知道在做什么的时候，我会慢下来，想一想。究竟我要怎么样才叫成功？

每个人成功的定义不一样。所以，成功是，达到你已经定下的目标。

我要的不是，身家百亿，更不是名车、名牌，我要的，就是开心！不要误会，穷光蛋也不会开心，所以工作还是要做、财还是要理、钱还是不可以乱乱花。开心是，生活充实、衣食住行样样有、家人朋友常陪伴、保持自己的兴趣爱好。（开心，还是有目标的。比如说，今年工作上要达到什么、今年一定要去哪里旅行……等等。）

这样想，生活好过很多。开开心心上班，虽然偶尔有挑战，不过雨过天晴后，我还是一条“好汉”。工作压力？到公司的club游泳、做gym。想抒发？回家看电视、煮煮菜。再不然，写写blog、拍拍照。偶尔回家享受天伦乐，偶尔旅行放眼看世界。这样，就可以开开心心一辈子。

想想，我的目标是开心，那，我也算是年纪轻轻的成功人士啦~