Choices and Chances

Choice, is actually given to everybody. Chances too.

How often do you mourne for being in bad luck? How often do you complain to your close friends for being dumped in a very terrible situation? I have to admit, it does happen very often to myself! And it happens to friends arround me very often too.

If we take our time, to sit down and think for ourselves. Choices and Chances are always given to us, under any circumstances. No? Think again.

Several days ago, a "kaypoh" person started out a busy body conversation with me, telling me "someone" whom doesn't want to be named told him that he/she can always hear my laughter in the office ALL THE TIME. I asked him:"So?" I was not happy to be very honest. I know, and my boss knows that our aisle is the quietest aisle compared to those around us. We do communicate among team mates, don't get me wrong. But we just don't spend most of the time talking. Such a remark, can't stop me from thinking it is unfair to judge. Especially the "someone" is actually from the aisle we always think "how come they never need to work?", because of simply talking so much.

I wasn't happy. And I told Yee Hau and Kia Hooi. Both of them told me just be myself. These people simply want to find things to say. Yes, be myself, be happy.

Why find flaws in people? When you can see good things in them? Why busy body? When you have so much work to do. Why bother to listen to the crap? When I have more educational things to learn.

In this case, I was given a choice to ignore and given a chance to learn. Ignore nonsense, and learn the fact you can't cheer everyone in the world.

Choices and Chances. Let's think twice before act.